I’ve never been able to reach orgasm during penetrative sex. How do I finally have a vaginal orgasm?

I’ve never been able to reach orgasm during penetrative sex. How do I finally have a vaginal orgasm?

There's no such thing as a "vaginal orgasm"

SexNovember 30, 2020 By

It’s a tragic misconception that a woman’s journey to PoundTown should bring her to climax. The truth is that the vast majority of women do not orgasm from or during penetrative sex. 

If you ask me (and you did), there’s no such thing as a “vaginal orgasm.”  It’s just as made-up as that time you pretended to be wheelchair-bound to skip the lines at Disney World. Certainly, some women are able to climax from a good dickin’, but this is because their clitoris was stimulated in the process. The clitoris is a lady’s main pleasure center, and while it’s most sensitive at the tippy-top, it has roots that extend back and down both sides of the vagina. Orgasms resulting from penetration like the “vaginal orgasm” and “G-spot orgasm” are likely created by chain reactions in connected tissue that ultimately stimulate the clitoris. 

Most women need direct clitoral stimulation with toys, hands, or tongue, but research shows certain sex positions can allow more clit titillation than others. In the “Cowgirl” position — when the woman is on top — there’s easy access to diddle her Skittle, or the girl can grind back and forth (like a cheese grater) on the pubic bone to massage herself to completion. The same method can be applied in a position I call “Taking Grandma to Applebee’s,” in which both partners sit upright, face-to-face, with the woman on top. Finally, “Grinding the Corn” offers a twist on missionary where the man leans forward, presses the base of his penis against the clit, and penetrates with his erection pointing “down.” Both partners use their pelvis to rock back-and-forth (rather than out-and-in), maximizing direct contact and connection with the clitoris.

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