I slept with my boyfriend’s friend last night and I'm not sure what to do. We were both drunk and it just happened. My boyfriend is pissed as hell. What should I do?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
First of all, I love your enthusiasm!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can tell you’re freaking out hard. Well, you kind of fucked up. You need to give your boyfriend some space and stay the hell away from his friend. Unless of course, you and said friend are interested in each other for real. In that case, you’ll need him as backup as someone you can call at 3 a.m. to screw after your boyfriend dumps you. As far as your boyfriend, all you can do is apologize profusely, take total responsibility and give it time. If your relationship is strong enough, you will be able to get through something like this. But at the same time, doing this has probably made him extremely insecure and vengeful. It’s possible he could be out banging your friends right now(!!!!!). Just kidding. But he probably feels a little worthless and that he can't trust you (and for good reason). All you can do is allow him to feel these things and acknowledge that it is because of something you did. Also, think about your happiness level in the relationship when you cheated on him. If you felt loved and appreciated, you might have screwed your boyfriend instead. Give him space and time and if you both really want to be together, you will be. Good God, this is a serious question. I have to go watch Beavis and Butthead now for like an hour to lighten up.