Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. What started out as a vibrant sex life has hit a wall, and I’m not happy with it. What can I do to bring back the sex?

Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. What started out as a vibrant sex life has hit a wall, and I’m not happy with it. What can I do to bring back the sex?

SexOctober 17, 2012

A: The infamous no more sex in the relationship stage is not uncommon. You aren’t the first one to experience the neglect and you won’t be the last. Before you go out and pull a pitiful Hugh Grant maneuver, there are steps you can follow to revitalize your relationship in the bedroom. Find activities that involve touching to increase the intimacy she needs to get aroused: trading body massages, working out together, cuddling up and watching a movie. Stay away from stressful activities that often lead to a decrease in sexual arousal. If all fails and you need a last resort, pop in the latest from Brianna Banks to get her libido running faster than OJ Simpson.