Dude, I’m not your anus.

For those who don’t know: pegging is when two people love each other very much, and a woman has anal sex with a man using a strap-on.

Should you do it? Dude, I’m not your anus. Only your anus knows these things. If your anus wants a strap-on dildo attached to your girlfriend’s pelvis in it, absolutely do it.

To me, the fact that you’re even considering it makes you a highly evolved male specimen. So many men are ashamed of their buttholes and shy away from anal pleasure for one reason or another. To me, this seems like robbing yourself of another dimension of orgasm, akin to if a woman refused to touch her own clit … so it’s cool you’re comfortable enough with your own body and sexuality to let your girlfriend try something that flips normative sex on its head like this. You are big man!

If you don’t like it, you don’t like it … what matters is that you were open to the experience. You learned something about yourself and tried something new with your partner.

Before your first time, I’d recommend you take a few days to explore your butt with fingers and a little baby butt plug on your own before you get pegged so you can familiarize yourself with the sensations and what anal pleasure feels like though. And lube the shit out of that thing.

Pegging, like most butt stuff, is not for everyone though, so make sure this is something you really want to do. Some people are born butt-stuff people, others just aren’t cut out for it. Oh, and congratulations on having the coolest girlfriend in the world.